Navy Wife the Nanny
Since Jo and I moved, I have been working from home. While I love writing all day, I need to supplement my income. My money troubles have been interfering with the creative process and to be honest, I feel pretty damn guilty that Jo always takes me out. Let's remember: as a result of Don't Ask, Don't Tell, she doesn't get a penny for my existence (unlike her straight counterparts who receive additional income for their spouse and children.)
Hence, I have been MIA on my blog; instead, I have been all over Monster. Unfortunately,
we are in a recession. Who knew? I've been away from the job search for so long, I didn't realize what slim pickings are out there. I received a few callbacks regarding my resume, but sadly, no one who has called is paying much.
I have no service experience or I would most likely be tending bar right now. I decided to return to a job I haven't done since college, but figured it would be like riding a bike. Grabbing the classifieds
and perusing Craig's List, I searched for a nanny position.
I found the perfect family in no time and began my new position quickly. The kids have been good. Ok, it has been challenging to transition from young professional to professional poopy wiper, but
we shall save that for another post. The reason I write today is to get my secret off my chest...I'm gay!
Sure, all of you know this already and could care less. But my new family has no idea. Jo is simply my roommate and I dive deeper into the closet on a daily basis. Go figure? I hoped getting a new job would get me OUT of the house. Oh, the irony.
Why didn't I just tell them? Well, for one, you never know if parents will be weird. Some actually have the false belief that we will infect their children with 'the gay.' Another huge reason I didn't share my sexuality? Jo's career. What if my new employers had friends in the military? Even if they were comfortable with my sexual identity, what if they told the wrong person about mine and Jo's relationship?
Alas, my bank account has some padding and the depression from my lonely days has subsided. But I lie, just like Jo does, about who I am. I'm finally getting up and OUT every day, only now, I'm more IN than ever.